Looking Ahead...

I think this quote in particular is one to live by. 

In life, we all have various relationships and sometimes we get people who treat us well and ones that don't. The thing to remember is that life is too short to knock your head against the wall trying to save the relationships where you are not treated right. Sometimes it is difficult to just forget about the one's who don't but it is more worthwhile to invest your energy in those relationships that do treat you well and acknowledge you, your strengths, weaknesses and that support you. 

How often do we hear people say "everything happens for a reason". Sometimes it is really difficult to understand what that reason is. The thing is that it helps you to see your situation from a more holistic perspective as if there is a destiny for you and ultimately it will be the right thing for you at the right time. 

What I have learned this year is that you don't always get what you want but perhaps there is something better for you. Maybe better relationships, better opportunities, better experiences. And sometimes, we have to be open to destiny taking us on a journey and learning on the way. Sometimes losing people might mean you need to learn forgiveness or loss. Sometimes gaining relationships mean you have something to learn from these people and they have something to add to your life. And sometimes, you don't get what you want because life is not easy. Life is hard work and sometimes you have to work harder than others but with the help of faith, you will realize why this is so in due time. In essence, you need to be patient and reflect on the 'no's' you might receive as they will break you down to build you up to be a better and more prepared individual that will eventually yield a yes.

Remember your worth and never let go. Life is too short for regret so why bother with things that make you unhappy. Follow your passions and your passions will follow you. Always remember to grow and learn from every situation and that whatever roadblocks or opportunities that come your way are there for a reason, and it is up to you to piece the bigger picture together. 

I hope that this quote rings true for you as it does for me. Good luck in your journey and remember it will be worth it if you believe it to be.

~ S
x x x

Everything Happens For A Reason

Ever wonder about soul mates? Ever wonder about destiny? That everything happens for a reason?
I truly believe that everything does happen for a reason and that everything is meant to be. We may not be aware of these reasons but down the line we stand amazed at how insanely these puzzle pieces come to fit together.
For example, you might accidentally get stung by a bee which makes you late for work and because you were late for work, you missed a car accident that would have affected your life drastically. Maybe you might even equate this to meeting ‘the one’ as you will be at the right place at the right time in order for your paths to cross. An interesting thought that crossed my mind is what if you looked at these scenarios as if you were the one used in order for someone else to meet their soul mate. For example, you meet someone who you feel is rather special and gets you almost to the point where you believe this is your soul mate but you can’t be with that person. There are reasons outside of your control, say age, your ex’s best friend, religion, you start dating someone else or what not. These reason’s make you stay away so that this person can meet their soul mate which just might not be you. It might not be you or just might not be the right time. In the bigger scheme of things, everything works out; everything will make sense at some point. They say when you experience heart break that ‘time heals all wounds’ and maybe this is true because you are able to look at it from a particular perspective and realise that this person was not for you and this relationship ended because there is one that is just about to start that may never end. Being able to look back and reflect on your experiences provides you with lessons and these lessons prepare you for something bigger and better. Having the patience to wait to see how everything fits together is important and achieving this patience is a lesson in itself.