I truly believe that everything does happen for a reason and that everything is meant to be. We may not be aware of these reasons but down the line we stand amazed at how insanely these puzzle pieces come to fit together.
For example, you might accidentally get stung by a bee which makes you late for work and because you were late for work, you missed a car accident that would have affected your life drastically. Maybe you might even equate this to meeting ‘the one’ as you will be at the right place at the right time in order for your paths to cross. An interesting thought that crossed my mind is what if you looked at these scenarios as if you were the one used in order for someone else to meet their soul mate. For example, you meet someone who you feel is rather special and gets you almost to the point where you believe this is your soul mate but you can’t be with that person. There are reasons outside of your control, say age, your ex’s best friend, religion, you start dating someone else or what not. These reason’s make you stay away so that this person can meet their soul mate which just might not be you. It might not be you or just might not be the right time. In the bigger scheme of things, everything works out; everything will make sense at some point. They say when you experience heart break that ‘time heals all wounds’ and maybe this is true because you are able to look at it from a particular perspective and realise that this person was not for you and this relationship ended because there is one that is just about to start that may never end. Being able to look back and reflect on your experiences provides you with lessons and these lessons prepare you for something bigger and better. Having the patience to wait to see how everything fits together is important and achieving this patience is a lesson in itself.
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